This subject remains taboo in some circles, but
heterosexual anal sex is becoming more popular. As a whole new sexual revolution is taking place, role reversal is becoming more popular. Hetero couples are turning the tables and exploring the joys of male anal penetration by his female partner. It a sex play role reversal that has become known as "Bend Over Boyfriend" or BOB.
The anus, rectum, and sphincter muscles can be stimulated to create intense orgasms. Both physical and psychological depending on your personal sexual needs. This pleasure is blind to gender, as either gender can be equally stimulated.
In the age of computers and the Internet the information is vast and at everyones finger tips. There are books, educational videos and select sex toy kits devoted to role reversal sex play. While surfing the Internet I came across a forum topic on this subject (
Strap on? women and men?) and decided I needed to write about this. For personal reasons and for a more broader reason, to educate the public.
Role reversal, and anal penetration can be an emotional and psychological, if not spiritual experience. It can also just be a lot of fun; without a deeper meaning. I think everyone who is open to new sexual experiences should give this a try! Here are a few tips to make it a safe fun exploration of male anal sex play.
Talk Before You Strap OnAnal sex requires tremendous trust and a lot of sexual communication. If you’re interested in exploring role reversal, bring it up with your partner to see how they feel about it. Choose your time carefully to open this conversation. Be prepared for some hesitation. Some people can react unexpectedly at first, but will warm up to the idea if you choose your words carefully. You might want to offer to go first if neither of you have had anal sex. Or if he has asked to do you, you can always say "Yes, if I can do you also."
Experiment Alone FirstIf you’re a man who wants to try anal penetration, get comfortable with anal play on your own. You don’t need a lot of practice before you get your partner involved. If you’ve never experienced anal sex before, you might want to try it alone first. Learn about male genital anatomy, and start to incorporate anal pleasure into your masturbation. It will help you to communicate to your partner what feels good and what doesn't feel good.
Start Slow And Small Before Strapping On That DildoStart slow and small, using your fingers. Get some good quality
personal lubricant and explore with your own and your partners fingers. You can also get some latex gloves for this if you feel it necessary. Take your time and get used to anal play before you introduce the sex toys.
Time To Go Shopping For A Strap OnThis can be as much fun as the sex play itself. Find a good adult toy store where you can ask questions and get accurate answers. If you're uncomfortable with this kind of shopping in person, you can always find an
excellent sex shop online.
Watch And LearnYou may want to check out the highly recommended educational DVD
Nina Hartley's Guide To Strap on Sex. You may also want to buy a
role reversal dvd to see the different styles and forms of Bend Over Boyfriend.
Strap It OnOK, now we've practiced, played, educated ourselves, and gone shopping. It's time to strap that dildo on. Make sure you feel comfortable and in control with your harness and dildo. You might want to wear your harness and dildo around the house for a while to get a feel for it. Learning to use your hips, lower back, legs, and other parts of your body to penetrate your partner can take some time. Don't get discouraged because the practice can be half the fun. Take your time and soon that strap on will feel like it's a part of you.
Strap On SafelyAs with all sex play, and especially anal sex play, there are some rules. First and foremost,
keep your sex toys clean. Anal sex is a very pleasurable experience but there are precautions that need be taken. Never use a toy on another part of the body or another person without cleaning it first. Use plenty of lubrication like Adam & Eve's
Anal Easy, it is specifically designed for anal sex.
Role Reversal Will Bring You CloserDon't forget to talk about your experiences, what you liked and how you felt. Role reversal can be very liberating for both of you and very rewarding for your sex life. Beyond male anal pleasure, there is a lot to explore in the area of role reversals. This will give both of you a chance to explore your masculine and feminine feelings. It will let you attend to your partner in a completely different way. Western culture's “sex” still means man-does-woman, penis-in-vagina. Role reversal can be considered an extreme sex act. But it comes with a potential for spiritual growth, a better understanding of each other, and some really hot sex!

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