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Role Reversal-Strap On Sex

This subject remains taboo in some circles, but heterosexual anal sex is becoming more popular. As a whole new sexual revolution is taking place, role reversal is becoming more popular. Hetero couples are turning the tables and exploring the joys of male anal penetration by his female partner. It a sex play role reversal that has become known as "Bend Over Boyfriend" or BOB.

The anus, rectum, and sphincter muscles can be stimulated to create intense orgasms. Both physical and psychological depending on your personal sexual needs. This pleasure is blind to gender, as either gender can be equally stimulated.

In the age of computers and the Internet the information is vast and at everyones finger tips. There are books, educational videos and select sex toy kits devoted to role reversal sex play. While surfing the Internet I came across a forum topic on this subject (Strap on? women and men?) and decided I needed to write about this. For personal reasons and for a more broader reason, to educate the public.

Role reversal, and anal penetration can be an emotional and psychological, if not spiritual experience. It can also just be a lot of fun; without a deeper meaning. I think everyone who is open to new sexual experiences should give this a try! Here are a few tips to make it a safe fun exploration of male anal sex play.

Talk Before You Strap On

Anal sex requires tremendous trust and a lot of sexual communication. If you’re interested in exploring role reversal, bring it up with your partner to see how they feel about it. Choose your time carefully to open this conversation. Be prepared for some hesitation. Some people can react unexpectedly at first, but will warm up to the idea if you choose your words carefully. You might want to offer to go first if neither of you have had anal sex. Or if he has asked to do you, you can always say "Yes, if I can do you also."

Experiment Alone First

If you’re a man who wants to try anal penetration, get comfortable with anal play on your own. You don’t need a lot of practice before you get your partner involved. If you’ve never experienced anal sex before, you might want to try it alone first. Learn about male genital anatomy, and start to incorporate anal pleasure into your masturbation. It will help you to communicate to your partner what feels good and what doesn't feel good.

Start Slow And Small Before Strapping On That Dildo

Start slow and small, using your fingers. Get some good quality personal lubricant and explore with your own and your partners fingers. You can also get some latex gloves for this if you feel it necessary. Take your time and get used to anal play before you introduce the sex toys.

Time To Go Shopping For A Strap On

This can be as much fun as the sex play itself. Find a good adult toy store where you can ask questions and get accurate answers. If you're uncomfortable with this kind of shopping in person, you can always find an excellent sex shop online.

Watch And Learn

You may want to check out the highly recommended educational DVD Nina Hartley's Guide To Strap on Sex. You may also want to buy a role reversal dvd to see the different styles and forms of Bend Over Boyfriend.

Strap It On

OK, now we've practiced, played, educated ourselves, and gone shopping. It's time to strap that dildo on. Make sure you feel comfortable and in control with your harness and dildo. You might want to wear your harness and dildo around the house for a while to get a feel for it. Learning to use your hips, lower back, legs, and other parts of your body to penetrate your partner can take some time. Don't get discouraged because the practice can be half the fun. Take your time and soon that strap on will feel like it's a part of you.

Strap On Safely

As with all sex play, and especially anal sex play, there are some rules. First and foremost, keep your sex toys clean. Anal sex is a very pleasurable experience but there are precautions that need be taken. Never use a toy on another part of the body or another person without cleaning it first. Use plenty of lubrication like Adam & Eve's Anal Easy, it is specifically designed for anal sex.

Role Reversal Will Bring You Closer

Don't forget to talk about your experiences, what you liked and how you felt. Role reversal can be very liberating for both of you and very rewarding for your sex life. Beyond male anal pleasure, there is a lot to explore in the area of role reversals. This will give both of you a chance to explore your masculine and feminine feelings. It will let you attend to your partner in a completely different way. Western culture's “sex” still means man-does-woman, penis-in-vagina. Role reversal can be considered an extreme sex act. But it comes with a potential for spiritual growth, a better understanding of each other, and some really hot sex!


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Sex 101 - Sexy Lingerie

Want to rev up a night of fun? Treat yourself to some sexy new lingerie. I don't know a man that doesn't like seeing his woman in a sexy lingerie.

I bet your thinking "Yeah that's nice, but I don't have the body to wear that stuff." Well - You are wrong! Every woman looks great in sexy lingerie. And every man loves to see his woman in it.

Sometimes it doesn't stay on very long, but hey, that was the point of buying it. Right? I know that's why I buy sexy stuff to wear. I know it will rev up my man every time.

Every couple has an eventual slow down in the love department. Why does this happen? Routine, the same old routine. People get bored with the same old routine. Then the eyes start to wander, soon after the body follows.

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The Art Of Self Pleasuring For Two

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How do you become a great lover? Learn the art of self pleasuring for two.

Focus on yourself, learn what feels good to you. Spend some time masturbating alone, find all of your erogenous zone. Learn where they are, when it feels good to touch a specific area, and for how long each area should be stimulated. By discovering the secrets of your own body, you will be able to reveal them to your lover. If you become a master of your own sexuality; you will be rewarded with a complete and fulfilling sex life.

Before recorded history, women have refined their lovemaking skills by practicing the art of self-pleasure. Primitive cave drawings have depicted females touching their own bodies in sensual ways. Cleopatra had dildos carved from clay that she used to excite herself and her lovers. Women in the ancient Far East, used tortoiseshell replicas of their lover’s equipment to serve as “companions” during prolonged absences of their lovers. When the lover returned, the women would amaze their lover with a repertoire of arousing new tricks.

These women knew that self-pleasure would free their body and open their imagination for hotter, more adventurous lovemaking. In fact, they understood that erotic self-exploration would:

Flood the body with endorphins, a natural way to feel "high".

Teach them how to achieve more intense orgasms.

Reduce stress (by releasing endorphins).

Relieve vaginal dryness.

Add an exciting twist to your lovemaking - relieving bedroom boredom.

Deepen the connection and intimacy between you and your lover

Learn the art of self-pleasure, but don’t keep all the fun to yourself. Here are 5 ways to light your own fire and at the same time drive your lover wild with passion and desire. These tricks are a guaranteed way to re-fuel the flames in your relationship!

1) Wet your finger by sticking it in your mouth. Then circle it around your nipples, making them hard. Let your finger trail down your belly and dip it in your vagina. Keep a look of pure lust in your eyes and watch his reaction. Remove your finger and offer it to your lover to suck on.

2) Beg him to lick your fingers while you masturbate for him. This will double the pleasure of cunnilingus for both of you.

3) The best self-pleasuring tool at your disposal is the penis. Even at its hardest, it is a flexible love toy. Position yourselves so you can use his penis as a dildo. Rub some lubrication on the shaft and head of his penis. Then proceed to tease yourself, by rubbing your clitoris and dipping just the head into your vagina. Be careful, the trick here is to let yourself have an orgasm but not to let your lover go over the edge. This is an extremely arousing method and you don't want the sex play to end before it really gets started.

4) Make his penis an even more sex exciting toy. Enhance his penis with a tickler/cock ring, these are latex or jelly rings. These are enhancements that encircle the base of the penis. They can have beads, soft prongs, and even vibrators attached to them. The snug fit will make his erection swell to even greater proportions than normal. While the beads or other stimulating designs of the cock ring give you bonus stimulation with every thrust. These sex toys have one bonus feature, they can help prolong your man's stamina. We all know what that means, longer, more satisfying love making!

5) While in the doggie position, use two of your fingers (in a V shape) and place the crotch of this V over your pubic mound. By letting the sides of your fingers graze against his thrusting organ you will transfer the vibration to your clitoris. This will also stimulate him further as it helps to stimulate the base of his penis. You can also tickle his balls every other thrust. Or pull them against your clitoris to add extra stimulation.

These tips should give you a good starting point in the art of self-pleasuring for two. Don't be afraid to experiment first by yourself, then bring what you discover into your bedroom for both of you.
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Orgasms Are Different For Men And Women

A Sex Tip

Men and women are different when it comes to orgasms.

When a man reaches orgasm, it is usually quite fast. I'm not talking about premature ejaculation, I'm talking about the point of orgasm. A man will reach the point of no return, and it will be explosive. Lasting only a short period of time.

A womans orgasm, on the other hand, builds in intensity. When a woman reaches that point of no return, she may linger in that state for a while. The best thing a man can do, is continue with what he is doing at that moment. Keep her climax going until she's finished. You'll know when that is. Here are a couple clues in case you are not sure of when exactly she has finished climaxing:

She will collapse in total exhaustion.

She will yell STOP! while pushing you away. This is because she can't take anymore. Remember women are differnt.

If you remember to keep her orgasm going until she is completely finished you will be rewarded for it. When a woman is satisfied completely she is more willing to make sure you are satisfied the way you like to be satisfied.



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Camel Toe, Just What Is It?

Just what is a camel toe? Well it's two things actually. First, it's the things on the end of a camel's legs. But we're not concerned with those camel toes here. What we are concerned with is that V shaped bulge in a women's crotch.

There are many names for it; camel toe, cameltoe, camel-toe (same thing I guess, just spelled differently), pussy cleavage, and vaginal wedgie. I've even heard it referred as cats paw, deer hoof, Venus Mound, and vacuum vulva. Everyone notices them, most people keep it to themselves, the one thing that remains constant, that bulge in a woman's shorts, jeans or bikini is best known as a cameltoe.

What Causes Cameltoe?

This still open for debate because it can caused genetically, or it can woman made.

Genetically speaking every woman's vagina is different. Just like a mans penis size. A woman's labia majora (the external pussy lips) can grow to a rather large size. When this happens, it forms what is known as camel toe. Another factor is pubic hair. When left intact (not shaved) pubic hair tends to trace the outlines of the vagina rather nicely. Pubic hair above the vagina, as well as belly size, seem to increase the size of the "toe". Sexual arousal causes increased blood flow to the genital region also enhancing the size of the camel toe.

This is a very aesthetically pleasing phenomenon, when a woman's Venus Mound is clearly visible. Which brings us to the other cause of camel-toe.

Women made is just that, it's when a woman wears very tight clothing. Causing her vagina to be a visible bulge under the snug fabric of her lower garment. When a girl is wearing really tight clothing in the crotch area like hot pants for example, the shape of her pussy is visible for all to see. Other times, or when the labia is not so full, a woman might pull her clothing upward, creating a cameltoe.

Typically, the fuller the labia, the more pleasing the effect.

Why Do Some Women Like To Show Cameltoe?

Camel toes catch people's attention, both male and female. Women who intentionally show their toe are definitely proud of their vagina's and want to show it. About 80% of all men are sexually attracted by this appearance. Men subconsciously see the cameltoe as a little indicator that a woman is feeling horny. Thus raising his expectations of getting lucky. Actually some of these girls just like the attention sporting a camel toe gets them. While others are looking to get lucky, and know this helps. In both cases a girl must have a lot of self confidence to display camel toe.

On the other side of the coin, shy women or those not so bold in the "toe" will try to hide it. They will wear looser fitting clothes, so their large labia is not discernible to the public.

Sexual Arousal And The Camel Toe

The female genitals are very sensitive. When a woman is sporting a camel-toe, the clothing is in direct contact with the vagina. If she has that article of clothing pulled tight enough, it causes direct pressure to the clitoris. When the woman moves it causes clitoral stimulation. Some women like this public stimulation, and is the reason they sport a camel toe.

Some Additional Camel Toe Facts

Camel-toes have existed since the invention of tight clothes. Which is when men started to become sexually attracted to camel toes.

The tight clothes boom has reached a new high with the invention of the term "Cameltoe."

Camel Toe is becoming a socially acceptable phenomenon.

Mainstream Internet porn user's are looking for camel toe picture's because they've grown tired of all the hardcore porn sites. They are looking to regain their imagination.



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